How I dealt with cyberbullying

Topics mentioned: bullying, anxiety, depression, social media and mental health

About: Our Activist Tamanna describes how it felt to be a victim of cyberbullying, and shares her tips for looking after yourself if you're being bullied.

Cyberbullying is an issue which is becoming far too common these days.

I experienced bullying almost my entire life, but the cyberbullying began when I started to use social media platforms when I was 12 years old. As a result of the cyberbullying, I suffered from severe anxiety and severe depression.

According to a joint study done by professors of the University of Oxford, University of Bristol, University of Warwick and UCL, young people who are bullied are twice as likely to experience a mental health problem in later life as a result.

I see so much abuse and online hate among the young and old - it's really quite demoralising. Why do people bully others online? What do people get out of it?

To be honest, I think it's a question of power and ownership. Having that control over someone else's life, their feelings and emotions, serves a purpose for the perpetrator. When you can't control your own life and its events, I think trying to control someone else's is a way of coping. The people who bully others might not have anyone to talk to or anyone that will listen to them. Some may feel that bullying someone else is their only way to get attention.

In 2016, the anti-bullying charity Ditch The Label surveyed 8,850 young people aged 12 to 20 about bullying in the UK. In their report they say:

Regardless of this, cyberbullying is never right, nor justified. Many young people are unsure of what to do and often either ignore it or retaliate so that it escalates into something further. Both approaches can have negative and unwanted consequences.

Here are some tips that helped me when I was being cyberbullied: