Topics mentioned: exam stress, disability and mental health, ADHD, autism and mental health
About: After taking exams with ADHD and ASD, Rachel shares tips for neurodivergent and Disabled students, from revision plans and exams to asking for adjustments.
My ASD desire for completeness meant that the ‘essential’ task list of what I thought ‘revise’ meant spiralled out of control.
Exam formats aren’t always suited to the realities of neurodivergence and disability which can create extra stress. Asking for adjustments is not being demanding – it’s about fairness.
Everyone is different, but I hope my reflections on navigating exams for students who are neurodivergent or Disabled will give you some ideas to plan what you might need to feel prepared.
My exam stresses
When the familiar weekly timetable was replaced with the ambiguous instruction to ‘revise’, I felt disorientated. I struggled to follow teacher-led sessions that didn’t suit my learning style and ADHD attention challenges.
My ASD desire for completeness meant that the ‘essential’ task list of what I thought ‘revise’ meant spiralled out of control. My disability tired me out, limited my study time and made focusing hard.
I struggled to move on from topics so I had to rush later ones and, without breaks, I burnt out. I felt isolated by my fears and was a pressure cooker ready to explode.
All of this, along with the tendency of neurodivergent individuals to catastrophise made the exams seem future-determining and the stress feel unbearable. Frantically, I cast friendships, family time and even medical appointments aside and did nothing but study.
After exams finished, I was again routine-less and struggling to reconnect with my friends and family.
In the exam hall, sensory sensitivity meant the sounds of students, invigilators, paper and clocks felt like a hammer in my brain. The seating caused me physical pain and I panicked about frequently needing the bathroom. Because I can’t read a clock, have decision making challenges and a slow processing condition, I was under constant time pressure.
My disability-related nutrition needs and ADHD focus difficulties made long exams even harder. Afterwards, I tried to move rapidly onto the next exam, but my ASD drove me to dissect the paper question-by-question for closure, leaving me less and less prepared. I felt like I was crawling to the finish line.
After exams finished, I was again routine-less and struggling to reconnect with my friends and family.
It was hard when I was under pressure to express what I needed but with time I have worked with others to manage exam stress better. Here are some of the things that helped me manage neurodivergence and Disability at exam time.
Tips for getting through exam season
- Prioritise – try to work with a parent/guardian or teacher to develop a new routine and work out what’s most important to revise. Put your health and breaks first, then the minimum tasks, and see what’s left. That way you cover at least some of every topic. It’s not your fault if you have less time to revise than others.
- Keep it varied – switching topic every 20-minutes helped me manage my ADHD and stay focused.
- Ask early about adjustments – my school helped me get assessments for extra time, a digital clock, read aloud, permission to bring in food and a smaller room closer to the bathrooms. Teachers let me revise differently due to my needs.
- Try to let others know how you feel – I explained my anxiety to friends and family, so they understood why I was struggling with communication, which helped me feel less guilty.
- Trust yourself – focus on what you need and remember, it’s okay to ask for help.
- Go in with a plan – I knew how I would divide the time on questions to make sure I got through them all. I also had a go-to breathing technique for if I got overwhelmed. Remember, you can ask to leave if you need to.
- Ask for support – let invigilators know if something went wrong before you leave the exam hall, as they may be able to alert the markers.
- Use your mocks to trial your routine - this can help make the real exams feel more familiar.
- Remember the senses – try not to wear something too warm/cool and find somewhere quiet to wait before the exam.
- Prepare anything you need – I packed my food and equipment the night before so I wouldn’t forget under pressure.
- Believe in yourself – you’ve done everything you can and we can’t always control circumstances.
- Decompress and rest – writing out or talking through the exam helped me mentally ‘park’ it. Doing something active can help release nervous energy. It’s also better to have a night off from revision, so you can focus better in the morning.
- Acknowledge your feelings – give yourself time if the exam went badly - it’s okay to be upset but remember that alongside managing neurodivergence and disability, taking the exams at all is an achievement to be proud of.
- Plan forwards – having something to focus on for after exams finish can help with adjusting to another new routine.
Being stressed is normal. Standardised exams don’t always take our needs into account, and therefore don’t always measure our talents. Some people will claim that adjustments are ‘unfair’ or unnecessary, but you have to trust yourself and remember there are people who want to help you do your best.
Remember that you are not the problem. Unfortunately, you have to navigate the system until it is changed. Your exam results do not measure your worth, and your health has to come first.
Some people will claim that adjustments are ‘unfair’ or unnecessary, but you have to trust yourself and remember there are people who want to help you do your best. Remember that you are not the problem. Unfortunately, you have to navigate the system until it is changed.
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Where to get help
However you're feeling, there are people who can help you if you are struggling. Here are some services that can support you.
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Childline
If you’re under 19 you can confidentially call, chat online or email about any problem big or small.
Sign up for a free Childline locker (real name or email address not needed) to use their free 1-2-1 counsellor chat and email support service.
Can provide a BSL interpreter if you are deaf or hearing-impaired.
Hosts online message boards where you can share your experiences, have fun and get support from other young people in similar situations.
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Scope
Provides practical information and emotional support for Disabled people.
- Opening times:
- 9am - 6pm, Monday - Friday; 10am - 6pm, weekends