Topics mentioned: bulimia, eating problems, exam stress
About: When coping with bulimia and stress, Olivia found strength in support from others. She shares her advice on navigating exam season with an eating disorder.
From the crippling guilt and shame to the constant battle with self-image, every aspect of bulimia can feel overwhelming and isolating.
As I sit down to write this month's blog post, I find myself reflecting on a journey that has shaped so much of who I am today. It's not an easy topic to discuss, but it's one that I believe needs to be brought into the light: bulimia.
For years, I battled silently with this disorder, struggling through the highs and lows, the victories, and setbacks. But through it all, I found solace in the support of those around me and learned valuable lessons that I want to share with others who may be facing similar struggles.
Bulimia is often misunderstood. It's not just about binging and purging, as many people believe. It's a complex disorder that encompasses a myriad of behaviours and emotions, each one as unique as the individual experiencing them. From the crippling guilt and shame to the constant battle with self-image, every aspect of bulimia can feel overwhelming and isolating.
I know this firsthand. From the age of 13, I found myself trapped in a cycle of bingeing and purging, unable to break free from its grasp. It consumed me, body and soul, until I felt like there was no escape. But in the darkest moments, I discovered a glimmer of hope: the support of those who loved me unconditionally.
Mental illness can feel like a solitary battle, fought in the shadows away from prying eyes. But the truth is, there are countless others who understand the pain and struggle.
Their support became my lifeline, guiding me through the darkest moments and celebrating even the smallest victories. They listened without judgment, offering a shoulder to lean on when I needed it most. Their unwavering belief in me gave me the strength to keep fighting, even when the odds seemed insurmountable.
But perhaps the most valuable lesson I learned was that I was not alone. So often, mental illness can feel like a solitary battle, fought in the shadows away from prying eyes. But the truth is, there are countless others who understand the pain and struggle, who have walked the same path and emerged stronger for it.
That's why I feel compelled to share my story - to let others know that they are not alone, that there is hope even in the darkest of times. And as exam season approaches, with its high stress and pressure, I want to offer some advice for navigating these turbulent waters while struggling with eating disorders like bulimia.
Tips for navigating exam season with an eating disorder
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Prioritise self-care
First and foremost, it's important to prioritise self-care. This means taking time for yourself, even when it feels like there are a million other things demanding your attention. Whether it's a warm bath, a walk in nature, or simply a few moments of quiet reflection. Find what brings you peace and make it a priority.
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Ask for help
Secondly, don't be afraid to ask for help. Whether it's from a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional, reaching out for support is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. There is power in vulnerability, and by opening up about your struggles, you allow others to offer the help and support you need.
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No achievement is too small to celebrate
Finally, remember that recovery is not a linear process. There will be good days and bad days, triumphs and setbacks. But each step, no matter how small, brings you closer to healing and wholeness. Be patient with yourself and celebrate every victory along the way.
As I look back on my own journey, I am grateful for the support that carried me through the darkest of times. And while the road ahead may still be uncertain, I am filled with hope for the future, knowing that I am not alone in this fight. And neither are you.
If you or someone you know is struggling with bulimia or any other eating disorder, please know that help is available. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional, or contact a helpline for support and guidance. You are not alone, and you deserve to get the help you need to heal and thrive.
Together, we can break the silence surrounding bulimia and create a world where everyone feels seen, heard, and supported on their journey toward recovery.
There is power in vulnerability, and by opening up about your struggles, you allow others to offer the help and support you need.
More information and advice
We have tips and advice to help you find the support you need. Take a look at our guides.
Where to get help
However you're feeling, there are people who can help you if you are struggling. Here are some services that can support you.
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Beat
Offers information and support for anybody affected by eating disorders.
One-to-one web chat available. They also run a range of online support groups, which are all fully moderated and anonymous.
Enter your postcode in the HelpFinder to see what eating disorder support is available in your area.
View their information on helpline accessibility and confidentiality.
- Opening times:
- 365 days a year - weekdays (9am - 8pm); weekends (4pm - 8pm)
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Childline
If you’re under 19 you can confidentially call, chat online or email about any problem big or small.
Sign up for a free Childline locker (real name or email address not needed) to use their free 1-2-1 counsellor chat and email support service.
Can provide a BSL interpreter if you are deaf or hearing-impaired.
Hosts online message boards where you can share your experiences, have fun and get support from other young people in similar situations.
- Opening times:
- 24/7